The most common phrase I hear during a consultation is, "I’m just not photogenic," or "I always look so awkward in photos." Here is a secret from behind the lens: Being "photogenic" isn't a personality trait—it’s a set of small, physical adjustments. The goal isn't to turn you into a statue; it’s to create a version of you that feels authentic but refined. Whether we are doing an engagement session at the beach or a professional portrait in the studio, these five hacks work for every body type.
1. The Magic of Triangles
In photography, straight lines can feel rigid and blocky. To create a more dynamic and flattering silhouette, we look for "triangles." When you stand with your arms flat against your sides, it creates a wide, solid shape. By simply placing a hand on your hip, tucking a hand into a pocket, or bending a knee, you create negative space. These "triangles" draw the eye to your face and create an elegant, flowing line that flatters everyone.
2. The Weight Shift: The "Red Carpet" Secret
If you stand with your weight distributed equally on both feet, you tend to look stiff. Instead, shift all your weight to your back leg (the one furthest from the camera). This naturally angles your hips away from the lens, elongating your body and creating a relaxed, "S-curve" posture. Think of it as a casual lean rather than a formal stance.
3. Dealing with "The Hands"
Nothing kills a vibe faster than "the awkward turtle"—hands that just hang there because they don't know what to do. The rule is simple: Give your hands a job. * For Women: Lightly touch your jewelry, run your fingers through your hair, or hold your partner’s lapel.
For Men: Adjust your watch, button your jacket, or place one hand casually in a pocket (keep the thumb out to avoid the "handless" look).
For Couples: Hold hands, but keep it loose. Interlocking fingers can look "bunchy" on camera; instead, try a soft "palm-to-palm" grip or have one partner wrap their arm around the other’s waist.
4. The Chin "Forward and Down"
Cameras "see" in two dimensions. To avoid the appearance of a double chin or a flat jawline, imagine there is a string pulling the crown of your head up, then slightly push your forehead toward the camera and tilt your chin down about half an inch. It feels incredibly strange in person—like a turtle peeking out of its shell—but on camera, it creates a sharp, chiseled jawline and defines your face from your neck.
5. Lead with the Heart
The most beautiful photos aren't about the perfect pose; they are about the connection. If you spend the whole session thinking about your feet, it will show in your eyes. I always tell my clients to "lead with the heart." Focus on the person next to you. Whisper a joke, take a deep breath together, or close your eyes and think about your favorite memory. When your heart is engaged, your muscles naturally soften, your smile becomes genuine, and the "posing" disappears entirely.
What does a typical session include?
Every package includes a vision board, wardrobe discussions, scenic options, and a clear set of deliverables.
How quickly will I get my photos?
Typical turnaround time is 3-4 weeks. We love sharing in your excitement, so we aim to provide a tease within 2-3 days. We take a holistic approach where communication serves as the bedrock of our client relationship. This means that if we complete post production ahead of schedule, we will deliver your session early.
What sets you apart?
Most photographers treat each session like a checklist - same posses, same filters, same photo presets. We believe that your photos should be as unique as you are, we ensure that every photo session is one-of-a-kind.
How many photos do I get?
Traditionally, photo packages include a set number of photos. We consider this highly inefficient, if you take 50 great photos, why should we make you choose between 10? Instead of giving you a cap, we will give you a minimum. This empowers our clients to expect a minimum number of photos where you look your best!
